I love Zechariah 4. God gave Zechariah a vision, and Zechariah asked what it meant.
At first, God didn't tell him. God gave him promises of strength and God's spirit.
This is where most of us live. Stuff happens to us. Confusing stuff. Bad stuff. We ask God why.
And He doesn't always show us the why.
But He does always promise to be with us, to be our strength, and to empower us with His spirit.